Dear My Future Lover(s):

Please know that I will expect so much more of you than that your body be "pure" for me. I don't care if you've slept with 1 or 100 girls and/or boys before me. I don't care if you don't have the "gift of your virginity" to give to me.
I don't think you'll respect me any less (or more, for that matter) because you've had sex before. I don't think it made your expectations of me any different. I don't worry that I'm being compared to others who've gone before me.
I'm going to ask you for two things, two highly important things: kindness and respect. If you can give me those things, you'll be giving me the greatest gift.
Kisses,
H.